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If you or someone else is in immediate danger, call 911.

Something to try right now

Small, evidence-informed practices for the moments in between.

Box breathing (4-4-4-4)

Breathe in for 4, hold 4, out for 4, hold 4. Repeat for 2 minutes. Calms your nervous system quickly.

5-4-3-2-1 grounding

Name 5 things you see, 4 you can touch, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste. Brings you back into the room.

Name it to tame it

Label the feeling out loud: 'this is anxiety'. Naming an emotion reduces its intensity.

Physiological sigh

Two quick inhales through the nose, one long exhale through the mouth. Repeat 3 times to drop stress fast.

Cold water reset

Splash cold water on your face or hold ice for 30 seconds. Triggers the dive reflex and calms panic.

Opposite action

When an urge feels destructive, do the opposite gentle thing — call a friend, take a walk, drink water.

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